Paano nalalagpasan ni Tuesday Vargas ang BAD DAYS? | Mars Pa More - video Dailymotion

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Ibinunyag ni Tuesday Vargas ang secret kung paano niya kinakaya ang mga araw na hindi siya okay.

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00:00 Me too!

00:01 Let's see.

00:02 Very cerebral type.

00:03 Wow, cerebral!

00:04 Cerebral!

00:05 This episode is science.

00:07 From your fruits to our anatomy.

00:10 It's like a class.

00:12 Eyes to eyes.

00:13 Okay.

00:14 Tell us, LQ, how long did it take for Mars to make you cry?

00:18 Because we don't have time.

00:20 That's what she said earlier.

00:22 How many hours did Mars take?

00:24 It's like a clock.

00:25 Do we need a part 2 of this, Mars?

00:28 Mars made you cry?

00:30 Yes.

00:31 In my line of work, we're expected to make people happy.

00:37 And whenever we express vulnerability, especially on social media,

00:41 people say, "You can do it!"

00:44 I really hate when people are going through something and then somebody says,

00:48 "It's okay. I'm here."

00:50 So I veer away from posting anything personal on social media.

00:56 I really try to make it work.

00:57 But when a strong person cries,

00:59 that's the time you know it's really painful.

01:03 So please, especially during the pandemic, if you are listening today,

01:07 check on your friends, especially the strongest ones.

01:11 Those who appear to be fine and okay,

01:14 those who appear to handle everything quite well,

01:17 they are the ones that are not discussing the things that are hurting you.

01:21 So I have a friend, she's really close to me, her name is Carla.

01:25 When I'm quiet,

01:27 I'm really loud, right?

01:29 You're not! You're really quiet.

01:31 I'm really quiet in person.

01:33 You're the one who's quiet.

01:35 So when I'm quiet, she knows something is wrong.

01:39 "Aha, she's not posting, aha, she's not replying,

01:42 I'm in the message zone or something."

01:44 She called me up.

01:46 She didn't even ask.

01:48 And then tears were just running down my face.

01:50 We weren't talking, she was just listening to me sobbing and all of that.

01:54 So she didn't even ask anything?

01:56 She just poured out her feelings?

02:00 It's like they already know.

02:02 They know what's going on.

02:04 And the trigger is something so trivial, something so small.

02:07 Let's say you're chopping vegetables,

02:09 and you didn't cut it the way you wanted,

02:12 and it's like, "Not everything is going my way!

02:14 Why can't I have a win today?"

02:16 And then all the pent-up emotions will come together.

02:21 So when we cried, the comedians or the clowns in your group of friends,

02:27 the life of the party,

02:29 everything was just a little bit up to the upper man,

02:33 and then it just exploded one day.

02:35 So what I did was, rather than discussing the problem itself,

02:40 we talked about how our friend was laughing,

02:43 and we were laughing at the people we saw on our page.

02:47 And then later, we were laughing.

02:49 So it was just crazy.

02:50 So when you take care of yourself,

02:52 and you think about, "What is this teaching me?"

02:54 Rather than, "Here we go again, here we go again."

02:58 Then there's no moving forward.

03:00 So my take on that is, whenever we have problems, understand it.

03:04 And if you need to cry, you need to be lonely, you need to be sad,

03:08 just embrace the emotion and then move forward after that.

03:11 And don't keep it to yourself, bottled up like that.

Paano nalalagpasan ni Tuesday Vargas ang BAD DAYS? | Mars Pa More

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