90 Day Fiancé's Shaeeda and Bilal Give Update After Fertility Struggles (Exclusi

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00:00 Bilal and Shaday, y'all look good as always.

00:02 - Thank you. - Well, thank you.

00:03 Thank you, I'm just trying to match her fly.

00:05 - Oh, that's right. - Oh, that's right.

00:07 She just makes it, she put whatever on the bed

00:09 and I just, I go with it.

00:09 - And I was trying to match his.

00:12 - Well, both of you look wonderful.

00:14 I know you're 90 day newbies somewhat,

00:16 but it's 10 years of 90 day fiance.

00:18 Yeah, so how does it feel to be part of a franchise

00:21 that's so well-loved?

00:22 - I would say that it's an honor to be here.

00:24 Like, we are newbies of 90 day

00:26 and just for us to be part of this experience,

00:28 to celebrate in 10 years, I'm thrilled.

00:30 Like, I'm thrilled to be here, it's exciting.

00:32 It's an honor.

00:33 - Yeah. - Yeah.

00:34 It's absolutely amazing.

00:35 I mean, to be a part of such a wonderful,

00:38 this program and show,

00:39 just what they've been able to do for us

00:41 and for other people, you know, it's pretty cool.

00:43 - Yeah.

00:44 Well, you've had a lot of ups and downs on the show.

00:45 - Oh yeah, oh yeah.

00:46 - More downs than ups.

00:48 - Oh yeah, a lot of downs.

00:49 Roller coaster ride, roller coaster.

00:52 - So that being said, how do you feel about the show now?

00:55 Honest thoughts.

00:56 - You know, my wife, she made me do all this,

01:01 but I was like, really?

01:04 This is what's happening right now?

01:07 But it's all fun and fun.

01:09 You know, though anything has pros and cons,

01:13 I'm the type of person I always look at,

01:15 you know, glass being half full.

01:17 So I look and I take all the positives from it.

01:19 And I also realize that there are a lot more people

01:24 sometimes that are not as vocal that support you

01:27 than those who, you know,

01:29 were a little bit more vocal, let's say that.

01:31 - Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:32 Especially in the loud, what is it, the loud,

01:33 negative, or like the negativity is more loud sometimes.

01:36 - Negativity is extremely loud.

01:39 - Very, very loud.

01:41 Well, what's your advice to the newcomers?

01:43 - Oh wow, advice from the newcomers.

01:46 I would say that, again, you're gonna get some pros,

01:49 you're gonna have some cons,

01:50 there's always positive and negatives to it.

01:52 Buck up your seatbelt, you know,

01:54 it's gonna be a nice ride, roller coaster,

01:57 you know, roller coaster ride.

01:58 So get ready.

01:59 But at the end of the day,

02:01 I think there's many more positives than negatives.

02:03 - Yeah, absolutely, absolutely.

02:05 I think the same as like, you know,

02:07 positives, the pros, away the cons.

02:09 So focus on the pros rather than the cons, for sure.

02:11 - What negatives did you get, baby?

02:13 She didn't get no negative.

02:14 - I think I got a love cider.

02:15 - I know.

02:16 I think 'cause they hated me so much.

02:20 People was like, "We don't like you, we love her."

02:22 - Right.

02:23 You had some ride or die supporters, you still do.

02:26 (laughing)

02:27 You two have so much fun on social media.

02:29 I love watching your videos.

02:31 So who comes up with the concepts?

02:33 - I think we both come up with the concepts.

02:34 - Yeah, like, we're just, we're goofy, silly people,

02:37 which is so funny when everybody's like,

02:39 "Oh, but now it's so serious."

02:40 'Cause like, sometimes we don't get a chance

02:43 to see everything about, you know, our real life,

02:46 but it's, that's just who we, we're just goofy,

02:49 you know, and silly, and like to do silly stuff.

02:52 - Well, I wanna praise you both

02:53 for being so open about your journey,

02:55 specifically you, Shada, your fertility journey.

02:58 This year started off a bit rough.

03:00 Where are you with things now?

03:02 - Well, I'm keeping optimistic.

03:04 Like, I told Bilal, like, I'm not gonna make that

03:07 throw me off and ever want to become a mother

03:09 'cause I was so down for so long,

03:12 thinking that my fertility days are completely over,

03:14 but I was happy that the fans were able to support me.

03:17 I get so many DMs from women saying,

03:19 "Oh, I had five miscarriages,

03:21 and 10 years later, I have five kids."

03:23 So, it was like, you know what?

03:25 This is just a stepping stone,

03:26 and I'm, it's all in God's hands,

03:28 and I'm keeping optimistic.

03:30 - Timing is everything.

03:31 You gotta trust the timing sometimes.

03:33 - Yeah, for sure.

03:35 - You know, I think, like, her going through it,

03:36 though it was a, it was a test.

03:39 It still is at times,

03:40 but I think that she is absolutely amazing

03:43 at what she was able to do, put out there,

03:45 to show that, hey, other women are going through

03:47 the same thing, and women, you know,

03:49 you tend to, like, you guys, like,

03:51 have the world on your shoulders,

03:53 and you can't express yourself as much,

03:56 and so when she was able to do that,

03:57 so many people came out and said,

03:58 "Wow, like, I went through the same thing.

04:00 However, I do have my rainbow baby.

04:02 Trust God's plan, and everything's gonna work out,"

04:05 and all that, so that meant everything for us,

04:08 but it was great to see her be able to do that for her.

04:10 - Absolutely.

04:11 - You know how they say, "You're not alone"?

04:13 It can feel so cliche at times,

04:15 but when you're going through it,

04:16 to know that someone else is experiencing it, too,

04:18 it helps.

04:20 - It does, like, I didn't, like I said,

04:22 I didn't know so many women experienced a miscarriage,

04:24 but they don't speak about it.

04:26 They keep it, they sweep it under the rug,

04:28 so when I realized it's something

04:29 that a lot of women experience,

04:31 it wasn't hard for me to, like, not feel left alone.

04:33 I was like, "You know what?

04:34 I'm in a community with other women like myself,

04:37 and I'm gonna pull through and get through this."

04:39 - We're proud of you.

04:41 Keep going, don't give up.

04:43 Before I let you two go,

04:44 there are a ton of celeb fans of 90 Day Fiance.

04:47 Rihanna, Drake, Seth Rogen.

04:50 Have you had any fun interactions with any celebs, any BMs?

04:54 - No, I have not yet, but I'm waiting.

04:56 I love Rihanna. - Yeah, she loves Rihanna.

04:58 - We have close Caribbean sisters, you know,

05:01 from Trinidad and Tobago.

05:02 She from Barbados.

05:03 I love her, I love her, love her, love her.

05:06 - And Drake, you can holla at your boy, too, you know.

05:09 Me, me, me, me.

05:10 I can do a little something, something, you know,

05:12 a track or something, you know.

05:13 - I could see you two posing in a picture right now.

05:16 - For sure, yes, yeah, that's my guy, man.

05:19 - Anybody you're super excited to see tonight?

05:21 - You know what, there's tons of people

05:23 that we've just met for the very first time.

05:26 Then we have some friends that we've all met before.

05:29 So I'm really excited to see, you know,

05:31 it may sound cliche, but everybody right now.

05:33 - Yeah.

05:34 - It's a cool, 'cause usually we don't get together

05:36 unless it's like-- - No, we don't tell off.

05:37 - The tell off where everybody's trying

05:39 to beat each other up in the box ring.

05:41 You know, so to be here at this event,

05:44 it's absolutely amazing.

05:46 - Can we expect to see you on Happily Ever After?

05:48 - Well, you know, we'll see.

05:50 I mean, we know we're, let's just say our,

05:53 there's some cool things that are in the works.

05:56 - We're excited to see.

05:58 Have a good night tonight.

05:59 - Thank you. - You too, you too.

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