Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Jomari Yllana and Abby Viduya share their love story! (Full Episode 142)

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Aired (August 11, 2023): Alamin ang nakakakilig na second chance love story nina Jomari Yllana at Abby Viduya kasama ang 'King of Talk' Tito Boy Abunda. #GMANetwork #GMADrama #Kapuso

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00:00 [AUDIO OUT]

00:03 [MUSIC PLAYING]

00:07 [CHEERING]

00:10 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

00:16 And welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abumbe.

00:22 [CHEERING]

00:26 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH] is about love.

00:30 Is love really sweeter the second time around?

00:35 And can love really blossom in times like the pandemic?

00:41 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

00:43 Please welcome Jomaril Llana and Abby Viquir.

00:46 [CHEERING]

00:50 Thank you for being here.

00:54 Thank you for having us.

00:55 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

00:58 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

00:59 So good to see you, boy.

01:01 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

01:02 Thank you, Nestor Quartero, for being here.

01:05 My old friend.

01:07 Yes.

01:08 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

01:09 We're good.

01:10 [LAUGHTER]

01:13 Like--

01:13 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

01:14 We're OK.

01:15 We're super OK.

01:15 Yeah.

01:16 I know.

01:17 Nice to be with old good friends, you know?

01:21 Not old, literally, but people you've

01:23 known for a long, long time.

01:25 Yeah.

01:25 It's been a very long time.

01:27 You probably saw us [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

01:30 together, I guess.

01:31 Oh, I'm talking about "Gwapings."

01:33 That was the first time you guys met, right?

01:36 Yes.

01:36 Yeah.

01:37 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

01:38 1992.

01:40 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

01:41 [LAUGHTER]

01:43 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

01:45 And then we did the film.

01:46 We met in the film set, "Gwapings First Adventure."

01:50 Yes.

01:51 I remember that we were drinking,

01:54 and we were so young, but sorry, huh?

01:57 Children, do not follow this.

02:00 Anyway, we were drinking, and then [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:03 And then we just started getting into talking.

02:07 And it's like, I like you.

02:08 I like you.

02:11 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:12 Something like that.

02:13 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:14 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:16 Why like you?

02:17 Why not I love you?

02:18 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:19 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:21 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:22 You don't say I love you right away.

02:23 You don't.

02:24 No?

02:24 Because I used to do it.

02:25 Oh.

02:26 [LAUGHTER]

02:28 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:29 So I like you.

02:29 I like you too.

02:30 OK.

02:30 And then where did it go?

02:33 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:35 Very--

02:36 Short-lived.

02:37 Career.

02:38 I know.

02:38 Nine months.

02:39 Career.

02:40 In my research.

02:40 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:41 Because of the career?

02:42 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:43 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

02:44 Yeah.

02:44 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:01 How did this happen?

03:04 30 years?

03:05 I know.

03:05 30 years?

03:06 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:12 And then, you know, socials and all that.

03:15 And then I saw her.

03:18 On Facebook?

03:19 Yeah, I saw her.

03:20 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:21 So messenger.

03:21 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:22 Yeah, yeah.

03:23 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:23 OK.

03:25 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:26 Hi.

03:27 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:28 Hi.

03:28 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:29 And then she called me up right away.

03:31 Yeah, I called to make sure it was him.

03:33 And I'm like, hi.

03:34 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:36 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:37 Recognize the voice.

03:39 And then--

03:40 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:43 Really good friends.

03:44 Yes.

03:46 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:47 And both were single?

03:50 In 2015, no.

03:53 No.

03:53 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:55 No.

03:55 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:56 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:58 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

03:59 So--

04:00 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:02 Sharing.

04:03 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:04 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:05 Laughter.

04:06 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:08 Yes.

04:09 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:10 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:13 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:14 Long lost friend.

04:15 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:17 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:19 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:22 Very comfortable.

04:23 And then we became single.

04:26 Until it got to a point, John, when you said,

04:30 you know, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:33 But of course, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:36 Oh, yeah.

04:37 We're very open [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:42 Can we be together again?

04:43 Did you actually ask her?

04:45 No.

04:45 I said, come home.

04:47 I don't know what your expression--

04:48 You know why?

04:49 Because she said that I will never

04:52 come back to the Philippines.

04:53 Why were you saying that?

04:55 Abby--

04:56 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

04:57 I know.

04:58 [LAUGHTER]

04:59 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

05:00 OK.

05:02 I had my life there already.

05:04 I mean--

05:04 We're talking about Canada.

05:05 We're talking about Canada.

05:06 Um, and [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH] I mean,

05:10 why am I going to go back here?

05:12 There's nothing for me to go back to.

05:15 Like, my family's all there, right?

05:17 So I said, ah, this was in probably like 2015.

05:23 I said, oh, I'm not going to go back there.

05:25 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

05:26 [LAUGHTER]

05:28 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

05:30 I was still in Canada.

05:31 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

05:32 Oh, OK.

05:32 So I was like super busy with work.

05:35 And then [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

05:47 OK.

05:48 But I asked her.

05:49 And then she said, yes.

05:51 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

05:52 Now, go back to the Balikbayan boxes.

05:53 What were they?

05:54 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

05:59 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:02 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:07 OK, this was after you said, come home.

06:08 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:09 And then?

06:10 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:15 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:16 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:17 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:23 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:24 [LAUGHTER]

06:26 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:28 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:31 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:34 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:35 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

06:36 I don't know.

06:36 I have--

06:37 [LAUGHTER]

06:38 OK.

06:39 OK.

06:39 Sometimes I have this thing that people--

06:41 oh, this is interesting.

06:43 I want to try it.

06:44 Like trying to live in a different country.

06:47 I have that there.

06:49 I like trying.

06:51 Like I want to live and see how their life is there,

06:54 experience.

06:55 And the adventure.

06:56 The adventure.

06:57 OK.

06:58 So [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]

07:00 - He doesn't believe me. - So it was stopped over.

07:02 It was in Hong Kong, so it was stopped over.

07:05 Then they said it was going to fly.

07:07 So I got myself a car and I said, "It's coming."

07:14 So I waited. It was coming.

07:18 At that time, I was at the terminal, I was waiting for a call.

07:25 They said that it was coming out. I saw her for the first time.

07:27 - How was it? - It was so emotional.

07:35 I saw the same person. She looked exactly the same.

07:42 - Very, very slim. - Yeah, I was slim when I arrived.

07:45 And she was beautiful. Nothing changed.

07:47 She was looking for me like that.

07:51 I was there and she couldn't see me.

07:54 She was confused. I was there and she saw me.

08:00 She was shaking. Her whole body was shaking.

08:03 Her whole body was shaking.

08:05 I said, "Are you okay?"

08:07 When she hugged me like that, she was shaking.

08:11 - I was so scared. I was nervous. - Scared of?

08:14 Of what I did. I came back home and I'm going to be with him.

08:18 I mean, when I got home, we were living right away.

08:24 - Right? - Right?

08:26 - That's great. - We had to come and live in.

08:28 I mean, he picked me up at the airport and brought me home.

08:31 And wedding is going to happen when?

08:34 At the end of the year.

08:36 It's a quick civil wedding.

08:38 - We'll leave the country. - Here, 2023?

08:40 No, we're going to Vegas.

08:44 - The civil? - The civil one.

08:46 It's just a quick one.

08:48 - Next year, maybe in church. - 2024.

08:51 - You can't be absent. - Right.

08:53 And you can't be absent when you have a lot of friends.

08:56 That's how we are.

08:58 So, for Las Vegas, the wedding will be here in...

09:01 The plan is in Naga.

09:03 - In Bicol. - Where my mom and dad got married.

09:06 - In Peña, Francia. - That is beautiful.

09:08 - I was so surprised. That's beautiful. - Yes.

09:10 Congratulations. Best wishes to the both of you.

09:13 But later when we come back, we'll do fast talk.

09:16 I have some questions that I want to ask you.

09:21 For example, I had on the show Andrea Torres some weeks ago.

09:30 I also had Mick and Megan.

09:33 One of the things we talked about was the rules of marriage.

09:39 Mick and Megan said, "No, we're just talking."

09:42 "This is our agreement. These are our boundaries."

09:47 I spoke to Andrea about this also.

09:50 And this is about fidelity.

09:53 This is about cheating.

09:55 They actually talk about rules.

09:58 What are our boundaries?

10:00 And how exciting is it to be in a relationship in your 40s?

10:06 It's different, right?

10:08 That's what we'll talk about.

10:10 We'll be back after this fast talk with Boy Abundant.

10:13 We're back on the show.

10:19 We're still with Jom and Abby.

10:22 Just fast shoutouts.

10:24 Daryl Maningo of Leyte. Thank you.

10:27 Maribel Bilono of Cavite.

10:29 And Ori J. Miliena of Zabuanga, Cebu.

10:32 Ria Zorita and family of Binangonan Rizal.

10:35 Jonas de las Alas of San Francisco, California.

10:38 Albert Garcia of Dubai.

10:40 Thank you all for tuning in to our program.

10:44 Here on Fast Talk with Boy Abundant.

10:46 Thank you so much.

10:48 I want to go back to what we were talking about.

10:50 But we have to do fast talk first.

10:52 Okay.

10:54 We're doing it together?

10:56 Yes.

10:58 I think we have two minutes to do this.

11:00 Our time begins now.

11:02 Me or him?

11:04 Who's the first one to get excited?

11:06 Me.

11:08 Who's the first one to get angry?

11:10 Me.

11:12 Who's the first one to get shy?

11:14 Me.

11:16 Who's the first one to cry?

11:18 Me.

11:20 Who's the first one to get jealous?

11:22 Me.

11:24 Hug or kiss?

11:26 Both.

11:28 Hot or cold?

11:30 Hot.

11:32 Rough or gentle?

11:34 Rough.

11:36 Random or scheduled?

11:38 Random.

11:40 Traditional or experimental?

11:42 Experimental.

11:44 I'm just saying.

11:46 What does Jom do that makes you feel sexy?

11:50 The way he looks at me.

11:52 There's someone around Jom.

11:54 What will you do?

11:56 Kill me.

11:58 If Jom is a beast, what will he be?

12:02 He's a stallion.

12:04 Jom, what does Abby do that makes you feel hot?

12:08 The way he holds me.

12:10 What will you do if Abby is a mamba bash?

12:14 I'll fight her.

12:18 If Abby is a dish, what will she be?

12:22 Sweet.

12:26 Best decision you made together?

12:28 To get back together.

12:30 Worst thing you did for love?

12:32 This one.

12:34 One of us.

12:36 Worst thing you did for love?

12:38 You go first.

12:40 I can't answer it.

12:42 Giving it all.

12:44 Best thing you did for love?

12:46 Same.

12:48 Giving it all.

12:50 Lights on or lights off?

12:52 Lights on.

12:54 Is that happiness or chocolates?

12:56 Happiness.

12:58 Happiness.

13:00 Best time for happiness?

13:02 Morning.

13:04 Afternoon.

13:06 Three times.

13:08 Okay.

13:10 Complete the sentence.

13:12 Our love is sweeter now because...

13:16 Our love is sweeter now because we're together.

13:20 At this age that we're mature.

13:24 Our love is sweeter now because we're older.

13:26 There you go.

13:28 [Applause]

13:30 Let's talk about what I said earlier.

13:34 Did you express the rules of the relationship?

13:36 Yes.

13:38 Very.

13:40 Very detailed.

13:42 Talk about it.

13:44 Our setup at home.

13:46 Our direction to each other.

13:50 What I like and what I don't like.

13:52 We tell each other everything.

13:56 I think that's the advantage of getting into a mature relationship.

14:00 Let's talk about specifically about fidelity.

14:04 Do you talk about it?

14:06 Yes.

14:08 Always.

14:10 Actually, we talked about it.

14:12 If we cheat on each other, it's like we're hurting each other.

14:16 So why?

14:18 We don't do it.

14:20 Is it a deal breaker?

14:22 Yes.

14:24 How do you view giving each other second chances in the context of infidelity?

14:30 No.

14:32 It's not going to work.

14:34 That will be a closed book.

14:36 If you cross that line, you won't get anything good.

14:40 Are you saying this because of your experience or is this something that you just agreed with each other now?

14:48 That this is how you view loving each other?

14:52 I think it's both.

14:54 I think it's from past experiences and also because we're very open with each other.

15:00 We know what we want.

15:02 I know for a fact that if he ever cheated on me, it will kill me.

15:08 And vice versa.

15:10 What is the most important lesson in life and love that you learned?

15:16 What did you learn from this relationship?

15:20 For me, it's to be honest.

15:22 To be honest.

15:24 What about you?

15:26 To be honest in all aspects.

15:30 To be honest in your love.

15:32 Give everything.

15:34 And give the truth.

15:36 That's all.

15:38 What about you?

15:40 Same here.

15:42 To be honest with each other.

15:44 And to be able to relay what you want and what you don't want.

15:50 I think that's important.

15:52 No guessing game.

15:54 So if it's in the morning or in the evening, you need to be unpredictable.

15:58 Yes, you need to be unpredictable.

16:00 You need to be able to say, "Come here."

16:02 "Come here."

16:04 "Come here."

16:06 "Come here."

16:08 Because you really have to make it work.

16:10 Holistically.

16:12 Emotionally, intellectually, physically.

16:14 Everything.

16:16 A lot of hard work.

16:18 A lot.

16:20 But the return, the consequence of hard work, it's joy.

16:26 And in that way, you grow together.

16:30 You grow together.

16:32 Your careers are the same.

16:34 You grow together.

16:36 We give each other a lot of support.

16:40 Everything that we do.

16:42 Do you like to be together all the time?

16:44 We're always together.

16:46 We're always together.

16:48 We're not hard.

16:50 We're not like each other.

16:52 Again, that's because you were apart for 30 years.

16:56 I guess so.

16:58 When I'm away for a long time, he puts my T-shirt on his pillow.

17:04 My T-shirt is used.

17:06 No, this was the time that you had to go to America.

17:08 For work, yeah.

17:10 For work.

17:12 Breakfast, lunch, and dinner, we can't not be together.

17:16 We can't eat together.

17:18 If we're not together.

17:20 We're always together.

17:22 I work, and I come home early.

17:24 Wow, this is about love and love and love and love.

17:26 I know you're getting married at the end of the year, and next year in church.

17:32 Yes.

17:34 But if you were to give your promises now, what would you promise each other?

17:36 Jom, what would you promise Abby?

17:38 Abby, what would you promise Jom?

17:40 We're just going to cry.

17:42 I know.

17:44 Let's do it.

17:46 My promise to you, until the last breath, I will be your companion.

17:56 I am your first, and I will definitely be your last.

18:04 Aww.

18:06 How can I cry?

18:08 Really?

18:10 Should I make you cry?

18:12 Yes.

18:14 I promise to always love you for the rest of my life, and I promise to always guard your heart.

18:24 And always be behind your back.

18:28 I got your back, baby.

18:30 Aww.

18:32 Flowers for you, Abby.

18:34 Aww, thank you, Tito Boy.

18:36 Thank you.

18:38 Thank you.

18:40 And, I hope you don't lose this.

18:42 Oh, no.

18:44 They say in relationships, we need to be deliberate in our decisions to show up all the time.

18:54 That's true.

18:56 In bad and in good, show up.

18:58 Be there.

19:00 May you have an abundant, bountiful, happy life.

19:04 Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.

19:06 Thank you.

19:08 Same to you, boy.

19:10 Same to you, boy.

19:12 Nice eye.

19:14 Thank you so much for sharing your stories with us.

19:16 To your hearts and souls, every day.

19:18 Be kind.

19:20 Make your mom and dad proud.

19:22 #SayThankYou

19:24 And, do just one good thing a day.

19:28 And, let's make a change.

19:32 Goodbye for now.

19:34 And God bless.

19:36 [Music]

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