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Finding Nigeria's romance scammers
Guardian Nigeria
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7/29/2023
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My name is Carlos Barragán and I decided that I wanted to come to Nigeria to know more
00:04
about the Yaw boys and to know why they do it.
00:08
In 2015, in December, my mother met a guy.
00:17
My mother quickly fell in love with this guy.
00:20
She met him through Tinder and then through emails.
00:23
When my mother was going to send him money, we discovered that he was being scammed.
00:29
And instead of talking to an American soldier in Syria, I discovered that this guy was in
00:34
Lagos, Nigeria.
00:36
But luckily enough, my mother understood very quickly when I saw her that the emails weren't
00:43
coming from Syria, but Lagos.
00:46
My mother was devastated because my mother has always been a single mother, or most of
00:52
her life.
00:53
She said something, she said just one thing, "How fool I am."
00:57
The funny thing is that it was me, it was me who told my mother, "Go into Tinder to
01:02
find other people."
01:04
But during the pandemic, five years later, my mother was living alone and I kept thinking
01:08
about who this guy was.
01:11
The good thing is that everybody from my brothers and my mother were eager about this story.
01:17
They wanted me to tell this story.
01:19
And talking to other Nigerians, I felt their pain when they go abroad.
01:27
And the first thing someone tells them is, "Are you a scammer?"
01:34
Which is something that is racist.
01:36
I decided that I wanted to come to Nigeria to know more about the Yahoo Boys and to know
01:41
why they do it.
01:43
So I ended up living with this guy, Biggie, a Yahoo Boy.
01:48
He told me that police officers were part of the problem because some of them were accepting
01:54
bribes.
01:55
I gathered from them that it's something that police officers can't do anything about it,
02:02
or at least they don't have the resources to fight this epidemic, as one of the police
02:10
officers I interviewed called it.
02:12
Yahoo is rampant and it's happening in all sorts of classes, social classes.
02:21
One of the Yahoo Boys kept telling me about one of his clients.
02:26
And she told him that she was thinking about killing herself, an American woman.
02:32
And he kept saying, "No, no, no.
02:34
She's not going to kill herself.
02:37
She just wants attention."
02:39
So I understand why they do that, because if you want to scam, Roman scam, which is
02:45
my specialization, if you want to do a scam like that, you can't think about the other
02:49
person's feelings.
02:50
Because something that Americans and Europeans don't understand, they don't have a clear
02:54
picture of who these guys are.
02:57
When you understand, the way you look at them is different from when you just think that
03:02
they are evil, they are callous, they are all looking for money, which is sometimes
03:10
true, sometimes it's not.
03:12
And the money is one thing, but what they go through is something they are not going
03:18
to forget.
03:21
So it's not excusable, because the pain that you are causing in the other side of the world
03:26
is enormous.
03:28
The problem with victims of these kind of Roman scams is that it's very difficult for
03:32
them to understand that they are talking to someone else, to someone different, that the
03:37
person they have in their mind doesn't exist.
03:40
Victims have described the pain as, like, it's the saddest crime on earth, because I've
03:47
seen scammers getting money as soon as, like, three hours after starting talking to someone,
03:53
which reveals to you a lot about the loneliness that that person is going through.
03:58
So yeah, I would say that, and also I think it's important to tell the families of the
04:03
victims, you have something, like, you have some responsibility, you know?
04:10
You have to be more with them, because if you don't help them, it's like young people
04:15
here in Nigeria, if you don't help them, then maybe other things happen.
04:21
And this with the victims is the same.
04:24
I think that it's important to tell victims, there is no something like fast love.
04:29
Don't send money to someone you've never met.
04:32
I would say going to online dating, but also you have to learn the red flags.
04:37
I want to tell America, and tell Europe, the problem is here, but also the problem is in
04:43
the other side.
04:44
It's not only a Nigerian problem, and of course there are scammers everywhere, but the problem
04:49
we have in Europe and in the US is that we are not doing enough for the lonely people.
04:56
I'm here in Nigeria back again, because we are reporting on other stories.
05:01
We are meeting more Yahoo boys.
05:03
At the same time, I'm interviewing Roman scam victims in the US, people even who have come
05:10
all the way from America to here because they were duped.
05:14
This is what happened, she stopped dating for a while, but I remember she dated another
05:22
man.
05:23
She keeps trying, she keeps trying, she keeps telling me, "Oh, men from my generation are
05:30
not as good as the last one.
05:33
Where are they?
05:34
I can't find them."
05:35
But she is persistent, and I'm sure that she's going to find someone.
05:40
I'm open to other stories, either in Nigeria, Europe, or in the US.
05:45
We will see.
05:47
The only thing I hope is that not more stories about my mother.
05:51
I want to keep the relationship modest, and I don't want to write more about her, although
05:56
we have a pretty good relationship.
05:58
I think that I've done the job, and now I'm ready to go to the next project.
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