Talking to my daughter about the future
- 6 yıl önce
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11/19/new - It was about time I explain this video.\r
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This video was about an adoption process, that never went through. Someone (on my Wifes side of the family) was having their fourth baby with someone that they did favors for, and said they couldnt possibly love the baby, and didnt want to feel the same way towards them, that she does for her middle child. (She cant stand the father, and admits that she cant even tell the 5 year old that she loves her, all because of who her father is. But wont give the child to the father, because of a PRIDE issue. Shed rather hate her child, than give it to the father) So she talked about having an abortion. We told her that wasnt necessary, and that we would adopt the baby. We had a name picked out if it was a boy, and we have a named picked out if it was going to be a girl. Well right before she gave birth, she had a sudden change of heart. Come to find out (through this persons sister) that she was taking pills, and doing everything in the book to have a miscarriage because she didnt want to give the baby up, but she wasnt going to love it either.)\r
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The worst part. This person (that was going to let us adopt the baby she wanted to abort or miscarry) was having that baby with someone she met and hadwith, just to get a tattoo FOR FREE! She also mentioned that she was going to get pregnant again (with the father of two of the children), and try for a boy (Because all she had was GIRLS, and the father wanted a SON) She was willing to keep having kids until she got a boy, even though she lived under her moms roof, who is paying for all the diapers, food, school supplies, and everything. For ALL FOUR of her kids! Worked one job at 19, for a couple weeks. And then walked out (quit) because she didnt like someone she worked with, and she hasnt had a job since then, and that was YEARS ago! Now she lives under someone elses roof, and food stamps. This is a person that has no clue what a condom or birth control is, and really put a damper on things (We were SUPER FREAKING EXCITED about the Adoption. We wanted that Baby to grow up in a loving family, and NOT have to live its life NEVER hearing the words I LOVE YOU) when she failed at miscarrying the baby, and decided to keep it, EVEN THOUGH she knows (and still doesnt) love her fourth baby girl.\r
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That makes 3 baby daddys with 4 children. Doesnt love the 2nd or 4th child, but loves the other two. We still have the message she wrote to us (on Facebook), saying all of that. (That she couldnt love the baby and cant even tell her 2nd child that she loves her, all because of who the Daddy is)\r
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Life lesson: If you have Sex, youre going to get pregnant!\r
If you dont want a kid, DONT HAVE SEX! Its that simple.\r
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And then after ALL OF THIS, we had a baby on the way!\r
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And then at 11 weeks, we find out it died two weeks ago.\r
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It has NOT BEEN a good week for us, not at all.\r
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Im going to make this video public a little bit longer,\r
to celebrate TWO MILLION FREAKING VIEWS! :D\r
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This video is just for keep sakes, Im gonna make it private or unlisted in the morning. Probably unlisted.\r
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She is 4 years old in this video, and her birthday is in two months.\r
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My unlisted videos can be found here - \r
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Fore more videos like this, click on the link above!
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11/19/new - It was about time I explain this video.\r
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This video was about an adoption process, that never went through. Someone (on my Wifes side of the family) was having their fourth baby with someone that they did favors for, and said they couldnt possibly love the baby, and didnt want to feel the same way towards them, that she does for her middle child. (She cant stand the father, and admits that she cant even tell the 5 year old that she loves her, all because of who her father is. But wont give the child to the father, because of a PRIDE issue. Shed rather hate her child, than give it to the father) So she talked about having an abortion. We told her that wasnt necessary, and that we would adopt the baby. We had a name picked out if it was a boy, and we have a named picked out if it was going to be a girl. Well right before she gave birth, she had a sudden change of heart. Come to find out (through this persons sister) that she was taking pills, and doing everything in the book to have a miscarriage because she didnt want to give the baby up, but she wasnt going to love it either.)\r
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The worst part. This person (that was going to let us adopt the baby she wanted to abort or miscarry) was having that baby with someone she met and hadwith, just to get a tattoo FOR FREE! She also mentioned that she was going to get pregnant again (with the father of two of the children), and try for a boy (Because all she had was GIRLS, and the father wanted a SON) She was willing to keep having kids until she got a boy, even though she lived under her moms roof, who is paying for all the diapers, food, school supplies, and everything. For ALL FOUR of her kids! Worked one job at 19, for a couple weeks. And then walked out (quit) because she didnt like someone she worked with, and she hasnt had a job since then, and that was YEARS ago! Now she lives under someone elses roof, and food stamps. This is a person that has no clue what a condom or birth control is, and really put a damper on things (We were SUPER FREAKING EXCITED about the Adoption. We wanted that Baby to grow up in a loving family, and NOT have to live its life NEVER hearing the words I LOVE YOU) when she failed at miscarrying the baby, and decided to keep it, EVEN THOUGH she knows (and still doesnt) love her fourth baby girl.\r
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That makes 3 baby daddys with 4 children. Doesnt love the 2nd or 4th child, but loves the other two. We still have the message she wrote to us (on Facebook), saying all of that. (That she couldnt love the baby and cant even tell her 2nd child that she loves her, all because of who the Daddy is)\r
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Life lesson: If you have Sex, youre going to get pregnant!\r
If you dont want a kid, DONT HAVE SEX! Its that simple.\r
\r
And then after ALL OF THIS, we had a baby on the way!\r
\r
And then at 11 weeks, we find out it died two weeks ago.\r
\r
It has NOT BEEN a good week for us, not at all.\r
\r
Im going to make this video public a little bit longer,\r
to celebrate TWO MILLION FREAKING VIEWS! :D\r
\r
\r
This video is just for keep sakes, Im gonna make it private or unlisted in the morning. Probably unlisted.\r
\r
She is 4 years old in this video, and her birthday is in two months.\r
\r
My unlisted videos can be found here - \r
\r
\r
Fore more videos like this, click on the link above!